14 May 2011

poligami

  22 Komen    
label: , , ,
Assalamualaikum, salam sejahtera dan selamat hari sabtu buat semua rakan rakan pengunjung. Alhamdulillah hari ni dah boleh kembali berblogging bagi pengguna blogger. Semalam agak mengejutkan sebab tiba tiba tanpa ada sebarang notis awal, tak boleh nak bukak pulak blogger tu.

Sehari dua ni aku tengok sedikit kecoh pasal kes artis tempatan kita yang terkenal tu kahwin untuk kali yang ke empat. Siapa lagi kalau bukan encik Salih Yaakob tu. Apa pun, tahniah aku ucapkan pada beliau.


Dah rezeki dia nak berkahwin empat, apa nak kecoh sangat ye tak ? Sebagai umat manusia, kita doakan je la agar kebahagiaan menjadi milik beliau dan pasangan pasangannya.

Apa salahnya nak kahwin sampai empat kalau mampu untuk menjadi adil serba serbi. Aku tak pernah la pulak nak terfikir nak kahwin sampai dua tiga empat tu. Satu pun cukup la. Bukan tak menyokong poligami tapi ikut kemampuan la kan. 


Teringat pulak cerita P.Ramlee yang berjudul madu tiga tu. Kahwin sebab nak lari dari masalah. Tapi tu kan hanya filem. Walaupun ada terselit sedikit pengajaran, kalau nak ikut bulat bulat macam filem ni memang tak baik woo.

Siapa ada teringin nak kahwin lebih dari satu ? Mane la nak tau kan kot ada cita cita camtu. Kalau ada yang bercita cita camtu, apa pun pastikan la diri tu memenuhi segala syarat untuk berpoligami tu. 


Duit banyak berkepuk bukan syarat utama pun. Kemampuan untuk berlaku adil tu yang penting. Adil dari segi layanan, pemberian, nafkah zahir dan batin, kasih sayang, didikan dan tanggungjawab sebagai ketua keluarga.

Sedangkan sekarang ni yang kahwin satu pun banyak je kita dengar tak bertahan lama. Aku pun tak tau la apesal. Bosan dengan pasangan ke ? Kalau masa bercinta dulu tak pulak pikir pasal tu nape lepas dah hidup bersama baru nak terasa jeliknya ?

Kahwin la semampu yang boleh. Kalau rasa ada kekurangan tu, mintak la tunjuk ajar dari generasi terdahulu. Pikul la amanah yang Allah bagi tu sebaik mungkin insyaAllah bahagia sepanjang masa.


22 comments:

  1. Tanniah kepad SY kena kuota 4 telah penuh. Kawan saya yang sebaya dengan saya sudah berkahwin 3 macam tidak percaya sahaja.

    ReplyDelete
  2. kawin sorg hari2 pandang bende yg sama, buat benda yg sama pasal tu la cpt bosan.. kawin 4 hari2 lain org.. kalau balik umah bini pertama bini yg lain ni mesti rindu kt suami... bile suami balik rumah isteri mesti layan baik je.. tu yg best.. kalau xbest xkn boleh sampai 4 punye.. baru sebut nk kawin lg bini dh mintk cerai..

    ReplyDelete
  3. Ce sac cartable Michael Kors est si universel qu'il pourrait plaire à tout le monde. Dans cet article, je vais essayer de passer en revue les caractéristiques principales et les éléments qui distinguent ce sac à main des autres.

    tags:Bolsos Michael Kors Rebajas,Bolsos Michael Kors Baratos,Bolsos Michael Kors El Corte Ingles

    L’extérieur de ce fourre-tout Michael Kors est un cuir métallisé de laiton froncé et froncé. Si vous connaissez les sacs à main Michael Kors, vous savez que ce cuir sera doux et souple. Les deux grandes poignées supérieures sont attachées au sac avec quelques centimètres de chaînes dorées, puis les moitiés supérieures des bretelles présentent le même cuir couleur laiton.

    tags:Bolsos Michael Kors Baratos,Michael Kors Örhängen

    La diversité des couleurs et la taille utilisable de ce sac le rendent parfait pour un usage quotidien. Les poches intérieures ne manquent pas pour aider à garder les choses en ordre. Il y a des endroits parfaits pour votre téléphone ou votre Blackberry. Le zip top empêche les malfaiteurs de saisir votre sac dans un bar et aide également à contenir tout ce qui se trouve à l'intérieur lorsque vous courez pour créer ce train.

    tags:Windguru Longchamps,Longchamp Soldes Destockage,Pronote College Longchamp

    ReplyDelete
  4. Michael Kors Outlet Online was a huge success there and became very well known. The designer Kors then branched out into accessories including Michael Kors Handbags Clearance. He never lost focus on his American chic styling. Some of his most notable collections include the Michael Kors Totes, Michael Kors satchel and the Designer MK Outlet and Michael Kors Outlet Online Store.

    No one has to know that they are cheap Ray Ban Sale UK and no one will know unless you tell them. Each of the cheap designer Ray Ban Sunglasses Sale UK carries the signature brand on the lens to let you know that you do have authentic designer Cheap Ray Ban Sunglasses UK.

    tags: Cheap Oakley Sunglasses UK,MK Outlet

    ReplyDelete
  5. SUNDAY TELEGRAPH SPECIAL. PLEASE CONTACT JAMES SILVER ST SPORTS EDITOR OR JEFF DARMANIN ST PIC ED BEFORE PUBLISHING. Australian artist and professional surfer, Felicity Palmateer (26, Perth, WA) is excited to announce the release of her latest artistic endeavour, "Skin Deep".

    Think it is just a strained ankle. I don think it texas t shirts is anything hugely severe. We have to wait and see. From joker shirt lively parks at home to fun filled resorts overseas we've got great getaways for you and your family. Whether it's camping, a beach holiday or an action holiday, you and your children will have a trip to remember. Cheap Holidays All Inclusive Family Holidays Luxury Family Holidays HolidaysHoliday dealsOn the Beach sale has up to 50% off holidays in Spain, Portugal and CyprusOn the Beach has launched a huge sale on holidays for 2019 including discounts of up to 50% off to Spain and PortugalRoad Traffic AccidentsMum of Brit children stranded in New Zealand after horror car crash breaks silenceBen and Olivia Sargent, six and nine, were on a dream family holiday with their mums Kerry and Jules senior shirts Sargent when tragedy occurredEducationHeadteacher used school credit card to fund family holidays to US and New ZealandSimon Feasey has been banned from teaching indefinitely after showing a "serious lack of integrity" in North YorkshireSam FaiersInside Sam Faiers' smug family holiday as she ignores clothing 'rip off' scandalTOWIE's Sam Faiers has been desperately trying to distance herself from claims she copied a brand's clothing range after using them for freebiesChristmas shopping'My 20 Christmas' Mum reveals how she feeds family of 5 for just 3.75 a headClaire Walton dished up the festive feast with all the trimmings for herself, her three children and partner for just 18.75Car crashesChildren stranded in New Zealand for Christmas after horror crash kills mumA GoFundMe page trust the process shirt has now been set up to help Ben and Olivia Sargent, six and nine, who were on a dream family holiday with their mums Kerry and Jules SargentCubaBest places for cheap Cuba holiday packages for 2019 and where to visitBest places for cheap Cuba holiday packages in 2019 including more top tips such as where to visitDatingDad fed up that sons are still single takes action and writes hilarious ad to find them 'nice' datesA father of three has taken his sons' love lives into his own hands in attempt to find them dates during a family holidayTravel TipsWhen are the school holidays in 2019? Key dates for parents including when the kids go back to schoolWe've put together a list of all of 2019's school holiday breaks so you can get planning for your next family getawayHoliday dealseasyJet launches huge sale on flights and holidays for 2019 but be quickeasyJet has launched its winter sale with discounts of up to 20% off flights and holidays but you need to be qucikCheap holidaysHow to find cheap holidays to Mexico for 2019 and all inclusive dealsMexico holiday packages aren't always the cheapest but there are places where you can find best value deals.

    ReplyDelete
  6. Both things are possible if you carry Michael Kors Handbags Wholesale. If you are a woman who goes for innovative designs, a designer Michael Kors Bags On Sale is perfect for you. Offering a huge selection of chic purses, handbags, shoes and accessories, Michael Kors Outlet Online Store celebrates womanhood in an entirely unique way. Michael Kors Factory Outlet Online Store At Wholesale Price are one of the most sought-after handbags worldwide. We all agree that diamonds are a woman's best friend; however Official Coach Factory Outlet Online are absolutely next in line. To Coach Outlet Sale aficionados, don't fret because we have great news: a discount Official Coach Outlet Online isn't hard to find. If you are a smart shopper looking for a good buy and great deals on your next handbag purchase, you can go to Official Coach Outlet Online.

    Friendly Links: Toms Shoes Womens | Toms Clearance

    ReplyDelete